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(no subject) [Nov. 30th, 2009|12:21 am]
[Current Mood | content]
[Current Music |Shuffle]

So today was just a super awesome day at Universal.
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(no subject) [Nov. 29th, 2009|10:54 am]
[Current Mood | impressed]








Why, why, why??
Why don't they make men like you anymore?
God, I love you, Mr. Kelly.

I just do.

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(no subject) [Nov. 29th, 2009|10:15 am]
[Current Mood | flirty]

Do you know what I love?
When you know that a guy totally thinks you're a hottie and is totally nice to you and stuff. It's like, the funnest thing ever when you see a guy and he immediately like, loves you. And of course guys are so obvious, so you know they like you and then you can flirt with them and stuff, it's fantastic.
I just love boys, they're so much fun, aren't they? ; )


Lol! I just sneezed so hard my ears popped. I'm like, cracking up right now.
I'm crazy.
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Ashley's Message to Myspace [Nov. 26th, 2009|11:47 am]
[Current Mood | LOL]

Ashley mad her own Myspace music to upload the theme music from A Clockwork Orange, because they don't have it on there and they deletd the song and suspended her from uploading for a while so she just deleted the Myspace, of course. Here's what she said in her cancellation comments:
"MYSPACE CAN SUCK MY BALLS AND MY TITS. YOU WON'T LET ME UPLOAD THE TITLE MUSIC FROM A CLOCKWORK ORANGE, Y'ALL CAN ALL BLOW ME, YOU'RE DUMB AS DRUNK BITCHES FALLING. YOU'RE NOT GOING TO KEEP ME DOWN."
The first sentence cracks my ass off.
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(no subject) [Nov. 24th, 2009|03:04 pm]
[Current Mood | aggravated]

Why is my father such a little bitch?
I can't understand it. Where does he get his pissy, prissy little attitude from.? Seriously, I don't know who pissed in his Wheaties this morning but, bitch needs to get over himself, because there is no reason for his crude, disrespectful behavior.
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(no subject) [Nov. 23rd, 2009|08:51 am]
[Current Mood | nervous]
[Current Music |The Strokes - Last Night]

Okay, so this whole weekend turned out to be fantastic, thank fucking Christ.
Oh, I have to write more about this later because I literally have to leave right now for my oral surgery, which I'm still worried about, but I'm just going to go into it with Haley's mindset, that anaesthesia is great and it's gonna be so awesome getting knocked out.! Haha.


*24 Nov. 2009:
So, my ligation was pretty crazy awesome. Sedation and anaesthesia are pretty great. I was having hallucinations, isn't that crazy?!
Okay, so, I went into the room with my mother, and they put the blood pressure cuff on my arm and they also put on heart monitor leads (you know, those sticky things) on my chest and one on my tummy, as well as a finger heart rate monitor. I think that's what it was, I'm really not sure.
And then Dr. Burns came in and tied this really tight band on my upper arm and shoved in the IV and started giving me the anaesthetics. It kinda hurt so I was like, "Is it supposed to hurt?" and he said, "The pain will go away in a minute." Then my arm muscles felt like, really tight, also my throat. Like, it all felt really tight and it was very uncomfortable and he said that was the drugs like, doing something to my muscles, I really don't remember. It was the weirdest thing 'cause all the pain went away a minute later and I was like, trying to open my eyes and I thought it had been like 10 minutes. I seriously thought that the drugs weren't working, in my head I was like, "They're not gonna do the surgery, 'cause the drugs aren't putting my to sleep, I'm still awake, this is so weird," so I was trying to go to sleep, and I guess they were trying to wake me up. Turns out it had been like, over an hour and the surgery was completely done, and that's why they were taking out the IV and the patches. That's when I was hallucinating, when I was waking up. I was seriously seeing shit. I was fucked up. But pretty much the only thing I remember was looking up at the ceiling (which is grey) and seeing something orange, I don't even remember what it was, but it was crazy. And not to sound all David after the dentist or whatever, but my mother seriously had 4 eyes and two mouths for like, 15 minutes. I'm not even joking you.
So, they gave me a blanket after I could open my eyes because I was shivering so bad and I don't know why, I really wasn't even that cold, but I was shaking uncontrollably. And they let me rest for a few minutes until I said I could get up, and my mother and a lady who worked there picked me up and took me to the car and I slept while mum went into Walgreen's and got my prescription of Hydrocodone (Vicodin) and drove me home. Oh, and I hadn't eaten anything since like, 9.00 the night before and I hadn't had anything to drink since like, 10.00 the night before so I went home and ate:
- a piece of bread
- a bowl of ice cream
- a piece of bread with nutella on it
- an Easy Mac cup
- 2 hot dogs
- LOTS of water
- oh, and some buffalo dip when Haley came over
Then I slept until like, 4.00 until Haley called me and came over, and we put in Spice World (you know it!!!) and then Ashley got home from the store and we all hung out until like, 8.00 then we went over to H.B.'s and had a weekday sleepover!! 'Cause I love her. ; )
And today I've just been watching all of season 2 of The Bad Girls Club, 'cause I fucking love that show (as well as that season) so much.! I also did something productive (apart from having to do all the dishes in the sink and my dishwasher, which is allegedly broken, last night): the dishes, and I vacuumed the hall, living room, kitchen and dining room. When I get home from the store, I'm going to vacuum my room, as well, because it needs to be vacuumed so much more than any room in the house. I'm sorry, this is boring, I think I'm still pretty out of it from yesterday. I mean, if me trying to put a bottle of Coke away in the cabinet under my sink instead of the refrigerator is any indication. "Ya know, the usual..." ; )

My mother took a picture of me, by the way:

Just so you know, I'm not retarded, she took the picture while I was talking to Dr. Burns. But anyway, you can see him giving me the IV and the patches and everything.
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(no subject) [Nov. 22nd, 2009|08:49 am]
[Current Mood | amused]

"...Well, put your shoulders back. Hold your head up high. You are a child of the most high God. (Lol at God being high!) God breathes His life into you. You have something incredible to offer. In the coming days, God is going to increase your influence."
Lol @ Joel Osteen. 'Cause I'm so immature.
I was watching that for some reason. I don't know why I do that. I do it quite often. Sunday morning I just watch the televangelists preach the word of God, I find it almost fascinating. It's fun to watch them talk about the God I don't believe in. I wonder why that is... Maybe it's nice for me to see someone who really has something to believe in. They have blind faith. I mean, that's what it is because of course, no one's ever seen God, they just blindly believe He exists. I just can't do that, have blind faith like that. For me, if I can see it and I can touch it, then it's real. Ya know? I don't know, I just love watching Joel Osteen, his accent is great. Haha.
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(no subject) [Nov. 21st, 2009|09:42 pm]
[Current Mood | lame]

Yeah, so, I'm totally not lovin' the second half of this weekend. I am so bored, I feel like I'm gonna kill myself.!
I'm just gonna try and fall asleep to The Silence of the Lambs. I've nothing else to do tonight..
Also, it's already almost 10.00, so it's way past my bedtime anyway.

Whatevs...
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(no subject) [Nov. 21st, 2009|06:30 pm]
[Current Mood | happy]

Because she never posts new pictures on Myface or Spacebook, and because I take such great pictures of her, and because she's so gorgeous:


I have to post it somewhere!

Great day. It's been a great weekend so far, I'm lovin' it. I love my dear friends, and I absolutely adore Haley's family, they're so wonderful.
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Can You Dig It? [Nov. 20th, 2009|10:42 pm]
[Current Mood | kinda sad]
[Current Music |The All-American Rejects - Move Along]

LJ, I've neglected you since the 15th. It's been 5 days since I've posted anything, or even though about posting anything, which is just weird for me.!
I really don't have much to say. It was an okay week. The only really positive thing that makes me feel good about myself and this week is that I looked good the whole week. Everyday I looked cute. It was great... It's conceited, but whatever, I'm not gonna lie, especially in my own journal.

Oh, and I saw New Moon today at 5.15 with Ashley, Meghan, Suepy, and Haley which was a riot. Also, the movie was hysterical. I love Kristen Stewart and her broad spectrum of emotions. The performance of a lifetime from the entire cast, I'd say it's Oscar worthy. Lol!
But yeah, it was seriously so funny. But, okay, am I the only one who thinks that Bella just like needs to get laid or something? The whole god damn movie, whether she was supposed to be screaming or crying, she just sounded like she was making like, sex noises. I guess pain and suffering gives her an orgasm, I don't know.. That was just my completely objective, 3rd party observation, I have no personal interest in the matter. ; D

Other than that, I've been kinda sad. Well, I'm kind of only sad when I'm alone though, ya know? Like, when I'm just left by myself, my thoughts can't help but go to a sad place with all those feelings.. You know, those yesterday's feelings. Shit, now I'm gonna go ahead and cry.! Okay, so I am finding it difficult to be/sound serious in this entry. Literally like, every sentence is a quote. But whatevs. I'm not actually laughing, I'm just writing these quotes 'cause they're popping into my head. I mean, who knows where thoughts come from? They just appear. For realz, though.

Yeah, so I guess I've unofficially decided without my permission that this isn't going to be a serious, whiny entry. I can't help it.

So, my ligation is on Monday and my haircut is two days later... I don't know why they were shceduled that way, I'm probably gonna be in a lot of pain.
But whatever, I'm really excited for both. I'm getting anaesthesia for the first time in my life. They're gonna put me to sleep, it's gonna be so weird.!! And I'm gonna be fucked up after they wake me up, which I'm worried about... "/ I don't wanna be all loopy and tired in public. Haha. Seriously, though. Haley says it's great though, so I'm trusting her (which I don't know how good of an idea that is). ; D
Also, I have no idea what I'm gonna do with my hair, my mum just like, scheduled the appointment for me, I didn't even ask. I guess I'm just gonna get it a little shorter and cut my bangs (finally!) so my dad won't freak out.
Oh, and you know what I'm also afraid of? The anaesthesia not working. Well, no. I mean, it'll work, but I'm worried that it'll take longer for me because, well, top-down processing, basically, I don't know, I can't explain it, nevermind.


Okay, why aren't I asleep? I have a splitting headache. Actually, I'm getting a little worried. I've been getting these constant headaches daily and they won't go away.. I think it's school. I swear, if I develop (or have developed) some kind of condition I'm suing that stupid school.
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I'm a SpongeBob Nerd, It's True [Nov. 15th, 2009|09:11 am]
[Current Mood | nerdy for SpongeBob]

"What doesn't kill you... usually succeeds in the second attempt."
Hahaha!

















Also, I have to get this for Christmas!!!!!!!!:
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(no subject) [Nov. 13th, 2009|06:35 pm]
[Current Mood | calm]

Communication is a lot like the wind when I speak.

It's like no one understands and I'm left with empty hands forever.

I can't speak.



By the way, I just have to say that I love my Regina mood theme. She is so beautiful.
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(no subject) [Nov. 11th, 2009|04:02 pm]
[Current Mood | amused]

By the way,

I'm Lol-ing!! ; D
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(no subject) [Nov. 11th, 2009|03:07 pm]
[Current Mood | apathetic]

Man, I am fuckin' bored.!

I was so depressed for a couple weeks, and now it's kind of turned into apathy.. I've just become very unfeeling once again. So, yeah, I'd say things are back to normal. I'm well. 'Cause, I mean, feeling nothing is better than feeling at all. I mean it. Literally.
So now all I have to do is just keep my mind on happy things.

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(no subject) [Nov. 9th, 2009|12:44 pm]
[Current Mood | creative]
[Current Music |The music in my head (Bow Wow Wow - Fools Rush In)]

I want a pair of Jane Aldridge shoes from UO.
I just do.

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I Learned A Lot Today. Not Sure If I'll Get Laid and Not Sure If I'll Fail Or Pass. [Nov. 4th, 2009|08:24 pm]
[Current Mood | depressed]
[Current Music |Marie Antoinette [Disc 2] - Various Artists]

I just can't stop crying. Like, everything is making me cry, or like, seriously makes me tear up and I want to cry (but I don't because I'm in public and/or the people with me would think I'm an absolute fucking freak).
I was definitely thinking it had something to do with my period, and emotional hormones and junk, but now I'm kinda thinking that it might have almost nothing to do with that. I think I'm just feeling depressed. Ya know, like, there's no good reason for it like, I'm on my period, that's why feel this way. I think I'm just genuinely feeling this way because I'm... sad.
I just wanted to blame it on my period, and figured it had to be because of my menstrual cycle because there's really no explanation for it, ya know? Naturally, we all want to give stuff like this a name. Like, "Oh, you're on your period, that's why you feel like this. You'll get over it." But, the truth is, I don't know why I'm feeling like this and I'm just... so sad all the time, I don't know..
I'm just never really happy anymore. And the worst part about it is that I don't know how to make myself happy. I don't know what I or anyone else could do to make me happy.
But, maybe it's just the blues, you know? Ya know, the one we all go through where we're just very sad for a time, but not for an extended period of time.
Or maybe it's like seasonal affective disorder. There, of course, is no way that's correct, but, again, me just trying to give it name and an explanation. I don't know, I guess it's probably just the blues.
But we'll see how long it lasts, won't we?

I hope the whole graduating thing has nothing to do with it, because that is freaking me out - moving out and affording an apartment, and a job, and school, and stuff - but that was actually today. Well, it was today where it really came to light, because actually, a lot of things can totally affect you and your mood and your behavior that you're not even consciously aware of. So I could have totally been worrying about this subconsciously and it could have really been affecting my mood and I didn't even know it. I really don't think so, though. Well, I think there's something else that's definitely playing more of a role in my mood than that whole deal because with that, I am really scared and worried, but I do think I'll be okay with that. I think I can do it (but can I really do it?).

I just... I don't know what to do. I'm so sad and so lonely, I don't even know what to do with myself, honestly. I also just cannot get out of my head. I cannot stop my thoughts, and I wish soo badly that I could for just like, an hour, so maybe for an hour I could just be happy. Just for an hour, stop being my pessimistic, cynical, doubtful self. But you can't always get what you want, right?
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I Would Wish Upon A Star. But That Star, It Doesn't Shine. [Nov. 3rd, 2009|07:50 pm]
[Current Mood | trying to get out of my head!]
[Current Music |Blink-182 - Take Off Your Pants and Jacket]

I have to stop. Now.

"The past is past. The future is now."
That's true. Amen to that.

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(no subject) [Nov. 3rd, 2009|06:27 pm]
[Current Mood | okay]

First good day I've had in a long while. Actually, a very good day..
I might* venture so far as to say great.

Laughed for the first time in a while. And by that I mean that I laughed and actually just had a laugh. I didn't laugh and immediately became sad again.

*Keyword: might





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And I Don't Want To Be Reminded [Nov. 3rd, 2009|07:56 am]
[Current Mood | lonely]

I wish I could stop feeling so alone.
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(no subject) [Nov. 1st, 2009|09:00 pm]
[Current Mood | cynical]
[Current Music |Blink-182]

I have to have faith.
I have to.

Please help me keep faith.
I have to believe everything will be okay.
I have to.

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(no subject) [Nov. 1st, 2009|03:35 pm]
[Current Mood | rejected]
[Current Music |The Used - The Used]

Each time I let just one slip by,
I'm wasting what is mine.

Goodbye to you.
Goodbye to you.
You're taking up my time.
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(no subject) [Nov. 1st, 2009|07:22 am]
[Current Mood | blank]

The Used show fucking rocked. I haven't been in a fun, crazy crowd like that in over a year. Seriously.
But then the night went completely sour on me as the realization hit me like a flying ice cream truck that I am completely alone, and by my own fault, for the most part.
Like, I have friends who love me, but no one who loves me in the way that I want to be loved.
Which, I realized last night, I need soo badly.
Like, before last night, I honestly had no idea how lonely I was because I don't have someone who loves me. No one of value ever shows any real interest in me.
So I've been completely deprived of a good, healthy relationship my whole life because of where I live???
How unfair is that!?
So, thanks Life, for dealing me such a shitty hand.
Mucho appreciated.
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It's Halloween!!!! [Oct. 31st, 2009|07:19 am]
[Current Mood | excited]
[Current Music |Scary music on I Still Know What You Did Last Summer]

Happy Halloween!!!!!


I hope everyone has a fantastic Halloween, I know mine is starting off great - I'm about to go make some money, so, ya know.. Haha. And then I'm about to go see Da Used tonight and we're gonna partaaaaaaayyyy!!

But yeah, I sincerely hope everyone didn't get too drunk last night at MegOWeen. I mean, come on guys, have you ever heard of a little moderation?
Okay, so have an awesome day everyone, and don't check your candy before you
eat it, because if someone is still trying to put razorblades in Halloween candy for children, well, that is just so 90s, and that is just ridiculous. People need to stop living in the past... ; D

P.S. I'm watching Haley's favorite movie ever, by the way! ; D

 

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Amanda and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day [Oct. 30th, 2009|04:02 pm]
[Current Mood | melancholy]
[Current Music |M.I.A. - Arular]

I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. Today should've been an awesome day. It's Friday, it's the day before Halloween, everyone's in ridiculous costumes and in a great mood, and I should be in an awesome mood as well. Instead I'm angry, sad, pessimistic, gloomy, and all those other bad emotions.
The sky outside matches how I feel inside, ya know? "/ It was dark and rainy today, and we watched a retarded, depressing movie in 3rd, and my parents are fucking assholes, and people are so fucking stupid. I was on the verge of tears the whole day.



Hopefully exercising will make me feel better.

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(no subject) [Oct. 26th, 2009|06:54 pm]
[Current Mood | annoyed]

Soo, saw HB with Haley, Ashley, Courtney and Suepriya at the House of Blues on Saturday (the 24th).
This show was special because my parents finally let Ashley and me drive ourselves to Orlando. It was exciting, it was cool. : )
So, pictures are coming up next (obvi. I mean, when I do I not have pictures to post? I mean, really.?). I limited myself to only 10 this time, but I picked 14, so, yeah.. But not too much over my limit.



You know you want to look at the pictures... )
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A little word of advice, my friends [Oct. 19th, 2009|08:06 am]
[Current Mood | hungry]

"Harsh words don't solve anything.
The way you treat others may reflect on the way things turn out in the end.
Because when you have a strong relationship with a friend, you have a knack for things working out.
And if you don't have a strong relationship, solving problems together will help to strengthen that relationship.
"

- Proverb that Zach wrote
Haha, Zach really did write that. When I was in 8th grade, and I will never forget it.
Especially since Ashley wrote it down. Haha.
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14 days until Halloween!!!! [Oct. 17th, 2009|11:18 pm]
[Current Mood | groggy]
[Current Music |Where the Wild Things Are OST - Karen O And the Kids]

Gah, why are parents so uptight and retarded now? It is so annoying.
It's so ridiculous freaking out over Where the Wild Things Are and it's "terrifying, mature content." It's just dumb.


I just put that in 'cause he's the cutest little kid I've ever seen. In my life.

I mean, parents need to stop freaking out about their kids being scared or having a nightmare, and focus on something a little more constructive. Like maybe trying to hold onto their jobs in these difficult economic times.
Seriously, there was a Penn & Teller episode about this: Stranger Danger. It wasn't just about like, stranger danger, as much as it was just about how these days, parents' fear and paranoia are making them a little too worried about what their kids are doing and watching, when it's really unnecessary.
As well as how they clearly need to chillax.

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Writer's Block [Oct. 17th, 2009|08:51 am]
[Current Mood | ya know, ha ha ha ha HA]

What's the best pick-up line you ever heard (or tried)? What's the worst? If you're instantly attracted to someone, will a stupid pick-up line dampen your interest?


"Did you just fart, because you blew me away." I literally can't even type it without cracking my ass off.
What?? Dampen my interest?? If a guy ever said this to me, I would marry him. Right then and there.
Lol!
Oh, this one's also pretty hilarious: "Hey, do you have any band-aids? Because I skinned my knees falling for you." Lawlzz!

The worst? Hmm...
"That dress would look great on the floor next to my bed."
I hate this one because I mean, in the event someone says this to me, I'm more than likely wearing something very cute ('cause I always am ; D), ya know, an outfit that I totally love. So, why would I want to take it off? You should want to just stare at my dress 'cause it's so cute and great, ya know.? Why would I want to take it off, it's so gorgeous. So, yeah, that one just bugs me, and I don't like it at all.


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Life's A Little Foggy, A Little Soggy [Oct. 17th, 2009|08:36 am]
[Current Mood | apathetic, honestly]

What??????
Okay, so even deformed, ugly ass losers can find boyfriends/girlfriends, and I can't??!?

Wait, give me that again.??















I don't want one, though. I mean, there's no one to like, everyone here sucks.
Apart from that sexy boy who dresses so fly. But that's purely lust, so, yeah. No one.
And it's not my standards, like some very rude people think. They are not too high. So please don't tell me, because I think I would know.
I mean, I really don't actually care. I really don't even think I want a boyfriend, it's just funny to think that, ya know? That the most retarded, ugly, practically deformed (I mean it. Literally.) people can all find "love" (what they believe/feel is love. The actual term, it's a technical term by the way, is infatuation), or at least a date, and I abso-lutely cannot. It really is a very interesting, comical thought. To me, at least.

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This is [Oct. 15th, 2009|04:36 pm]
[Current Mood | pissed off]

bullshit.
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(no subject) [Oct. 13th, 2009|05:45 pm]



<3
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(no subject) [Oct. 13th, 2009|04:38 pm]
[Current Mood | lol-ing]

"I cracked my ass off." - Ashley Figueredo
I'm cracking (my ass off) up as I type this. I seriously can't even say it without laughing.
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Normalcy isn't my style (301st entry!!) [Oct. 11th, 2009|11:33 pm]
[Current Mood | sleepy]

I'm writing my 301st LiveJournal entry! Snaps for me!! Hahah.
My 300th entry is private, so I'm celebrating this one. Also, 301 is a nice, random number, so, yeah. ; )

I've been watching Back to the Future pretty much all weekend.
"Where we're going we don't need maps." I still love you for that Haley.

Anyway, so, loves it!!!:

I know I sound like a broken record, but (we are buddies) this movie is hella good. It's majestic. It was seriously so funny, I quite enjoyed it.
Although, if you really can't stand zombies eating people, I would kind of stay away from it if I were you.

Also, it was great, because I didn't have to pay for it (thank fucking Christ). I mean, it was $17.50 for just mine and Ashley's tickets!! Like, I would pay to see that movie, but I wouldn't pay that much. But honestly though, don't let that deter you, it's so great, I highly recommend it.


I think there was something else I wanted to say, but I completely forgot, so, g'night!
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(no subject) [Oct. 10th, 2009|09:10 pm]
[Current Mood | sad]
[Current Music |John Mayer - Heavier Things]

It's so funny, when my dad's mad, he denies us as his children.

Like, he'll be yelling at mum and he'll be like, "... Your daughters..." He won't claim us. Hah.
Do you know what I mean? He says their my mum's daughters instead of ours. That's weird.


I realized today that I can never really have any faith in men whatsoever. 
Also, that they don't want kids. Ever. They can not be trusted at all.

I mean, how can I ever be in a healthy relationship (and for that matter, how can I ever be in a relationship at all?) when I see the way my parents are? They are essentially all I have to go on, and that's not very promising. It's all I've ever really known, is their volatile relationship, so how can I be expected to ever participate in a normal, healthy relationship when I've been exposed to nothing but negative? I don't think I ever can be.
We talked about this in Psychology, as well. Erikson's stages of psychosocial development. That chapter is where I really learned how fucked up I am, many thanks to my parents, of course.
The first stage is in infancy, trust vs. mistrust. If a baby is raised in a stimulating, comforting, responsive environment, they will learn to trust.
If they are raised in a negative environment, basically they learn mistrust - the world is a bad, undependable place, and people can hurt me.
And this of course later affects people in the intimacy vs. isolation stage in "young adulthood." If you learn mistrust, and grew up in a negative environment, you will have intimacy issues and could basically end up isolating yourself. That's pretty much me.
I grew up not trusting the world - and when I did, I ended up with nothing to show for it - therefore, I can probably never be in any sort of normal relationship.


I don't even think - know my parents don't realize what they say has a huge affect me. They think it's just some dumb thing they said. They're wrong. They have no idea how the things they say affect me.
And they definitely don't understand what their fighting does to me. 

I just can't do anything but laugh. Laugh at the fact that Ashley and I were one giant mistake. Laugh at the fact that my mother has so much more drama from a long time ago than I ever realized. Laugh at the fact that my parents fucked me up royally.
Laugh at the fact that everyone has daddy issues. It was even a joke in an Adam Sandler movie:
"Hey, buddy! Who won the Jet’s game? You know?" 
"Who cares?"
"Let it go, pal. He can’t control you anymore."
"What are you talking about?"
"You know what I’m talking about."
"Yeah, you’re a loser!"
"You’re mad at your dad, not at me. I forgive you!"
"I am, I am. I hate my father!"

Hahah, seriously, just that random little part has so much truth. Soo many people have daddy issues, it's almost not even funny. Hah.
And when someone asks me why I'm so fucked up, I'll just do what everyone else does - blame my parents.


Also, can I just say, that my father should definitely take a leaf out of John Mayer's book, because he's got it right.

I know a girl.
She puts the color inside of my world.
But she's just like a maze,
where all of the walls are continually changed.

And I've done all I can
to stand on her steps with my heart in my hand.
Now I'm starting to see
maybe it's got nothing to do with me.

Fathers, be good to your daughters.
Daughters will love like you do.
Girls become lovers, who turn into mothers.
So mothers, be good to your daughters too.

Ooh, you see that skin?
It's the same she's been standing in
since the day she saw him walking away.
Now she's left
cleaning up the mess he made.

So fathers, be good to your daughters.
Daughters will love like you do.
Girls become lovers, who turn into mothers.
So mothers, be good to your daughters too.

Boys, you can break.
You find out how much they can take.
Boys will be strong.
And boys soldier on.
But boys would be gone without warmth from 
a woman's good, good heart.

On behalf of every man
looking out for every girl:
You are the guide and the weight of her world.

So fathers, be good to your daughters.
Daughters will love like you do.
Girls become lovers, who turn into mothers.
So mothers be good to your daughters, too.
So mothers be good to your daughters, too.
So mothers be good to your daughters, too.
 

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Huggies! [Oct. 10th, 2009|08:45 pm]
[Current Mood | thankful for my twin]


Sisterly love.

Ashley and I have it. Do you?






By the way, this isn't a picture of us as neonates. If you were confused about that at all...

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